Q: I've been in love with my best friend's boyfriend for a while, and now they've recently broken up. But now I'm not sure if I should tell her, or what it even means to him. Does he try to take things further or is he just using you for sex when he needs it. Don't feel the need to push things with him, just make it clear you're open to seeing him again and see what he does.
At the end of the day, your friend is the one you're still going to need in tough times, long after this guy is gone, so don't be too let go of that.
A: The key to asking someone out is to not really ask.
In other words, don't feel your sentence needs to end with a question mark.
Imagine it like this:'Would you like to go out this weekend?
' (bad)'I'm going to this cool exhibition (or whatever) this weekend, come!
A: Step 1: Talk to everyone around you that you don't already know. Step 3: Lastly, if you find you are not getting invited to things, make a point of inviting them somewhere first, even if it is just for them to try a gym class you go to that you think is cool. If the friendship is the most important thing to you, tell her and get it over with, and ditch the guy since she'll likely never be happy with the two of you together.
Even if they can't make it, it will have a reciprocal effect in getting them to return the favour. If it's not, then give it a minute and see what he does over the coming couple of weeks.
Just don't tell him he's 'nice' (I cringe as I even type the word) but you don't want a relationship.
My friend is dating again after yet another failed relationship.
But sometimes meeting someone like that requires the hardest thing of all: The belief that people can be better and the willingness to see the best in people.
Not easy when you've been through some tough times, but this mentality is what tends to attract the positive, happy people that she wants." title="" src="data:image/gif;base64, R0l GODlh AQABAIAAAAAAAP///y H5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" data-src="https://hips.hearstapps.com/cosmouk.cdnds.net/cm/14/30/53d2cbb07dd90_-_5-friend-find-the-one-mdn.jpg?
Q: I have a bit of a 'problem' with forcing issues when it comes to dating.