As for what type of woman you have to be to get this guy, in general, I’d say someone who is supportive of him. Someone who doesn’t nag him all the time about his job.
She finally concluded that, based on my profile, I would probably cheat on my wife a few times. It’s more important to me to be a good husband and father than it is to pursue my selfish interests at all costs.
If anything, I have a fierce ethical streak (which surfaces here from time to time) which is stronger than my thirst for money or new women.
This is really what my book Why He Disappeared is all about – being in your feminine energy – open, positive, receptive, nurturing.
Still, being the ideal woman for an alpha male isn’t always enough – not if the alpha male doesn’t have a strong moral code and doesn’t fundamentally value monogamy as much as he values conquering new women and new businesses.
So it’s not that it’s impossible to find one of these guys who wants to settle down with you – it’s that alpha males are inherently high risk/high reward.
And, from what I’ve seen as a dating coach, most women are willing to take the risk – but very few actually get the long-term reward.
SOMEONE gets the alpha male to marry her, all right, but I can assure that she is not always happy with what she gets. Marrying an alpha male is essentially a monetary play for a woman.
For at least a while they get big time care, shelter and lifestyle for themselves and their children. If it doesn’t work out they are “out of there” which means they get big $$$ which allow them to conduct the rest of their life as they like.
I didn’t miss her madly when she went on a business trip.