No one should have to feel guilty about their feelings. ( he also adjusts his breaktime when my tuesday schedule is complicated,and my breaktime is late. we were just on one room and my classmates shouted after they heard that). i think the reason is, he's controlling his feelings very much. Do you notice - that when he knew you were upset, he merely responded indirectly by asking your classmate to tell you that your food is tasty?
You can still interact with them and get to know them, without being creepy and crossing lines. he knew well how much i like him ( because i gave him a letter on teachers day and new year. knowing that he has no classschedule every tuesday, he's just on the faculty). If he is to tell you directly about the food being tasty, his action would be almost stepping into grey area which is very much danger zone and thus may have scandalous implication which is not good for him and not good for you too!
Dating my teacher yahoo
But if he is already married, then please don't disturb him because it won't do you or him any good and other people (i.e., his wife) will also suffer (emotionally and mentally) as a result of your actions. I'm a student right now and under the age of consent in my state.
One of my teachers in the past year I felt really attracted to.
But if those feelings can be acknowledged and talked about as inevitabilities rather than as signs of weakness or perversity then teachers are more (rather than less) likely to remain in control of the situation and not end up crossing any boundaries.
Teachers, whether they like it or not, are parent-figures.
Parents think that their children are beautiful and want to protect them from the sexualized staring of strangers.
But they only become aware of their child’s attractiveness to others because they themselves are aware of their child’s attractiveness.Of course teachers are in positions of trusted authority and of course they’ll sometimes be the objects of student fantasy. Indeed, it can happen from time to time in any profession where the relationship between people is the key to getting the job done.They must never abuse that authority or compromise their delicate role in the lives of young people. What I am challenging is the implication that good, responsible teachers won’t have feelings for their students which will sometimes be sexual. It doesn’t mean that these feelings of attraction will necessarily be acted upon: there are important boundaries which mustn’t be crossed.This adds to the confusion because, again, it’s illegal for parents to have sexual relationships with their children.It’s hard for parents ever to talk about the sexual feelings they may have for their children. I’m talking about feelings at the other end of the sexual continuum – benign feelings of admiration and attraction, from the mother who says she wants to bite her baby’s peachy bum to the father who fondly strokes his daughter’s hair.A fifteen-year-old girl and her thirty-year-old lover.