How could Tiger Woods's ex, Elin Nordegren, and Arnold Schwarzenegger's ex, Maria Shriver, not have known what their high-profile husbands were up to?
They probably did, but couldn't bear to acknowledge it.
"Online cheating—without any physical contact—is the most damaging type of infidelity," says Orlando.
Becoming emotionally invested in another person means you've likely checked out of your marriage.
According to a Rutgers University study, 56% of men who have affairs claim to be happy in their marriages.
Fact #1: Most men are still in love with their wives when they cheat.
"My first husband cheated on me with a childhood friend," says Diane* from New York City.
"His family was close to her family, so they never lost touch." Intimacy expert Mary Jo Rapini explains, "A lot of women think that all cheating women are floozies—not true.
They could agree to work on things, but it won't matter.
If he's still in the throes of a hot, new romance, nothing a woman does will drag him out of it.
Fact #6: Women cheat just as much as men, and their affairs are more dangerous.