It’s weird, and it makes me feel like he’s not in control. They tend not to jump into bed with you if they’re not interested in a relationship of some sort – unlike guys in their twenties.
If you want to wait to have a kid until you’re in your early 30s, your older man is going to be about 50.
Having to run around after a 5-year-old is hard work, especially if it’s been that much longer since your man ran around as a 5-year-old. Older people warrant more of it, so while your man’s white hair will give him all kinds of credit with the people you two encounter, you’ll automatically be dismissed as slightly inferior, regardless of your personal attributes.
He won’t be able to mesh easily with your crowd and will stick out like a graying, sore thumb at parties attended by fresh-faced 25-year-olds. These women will specifically go out of their way to make you feel unwelcome in their crowd.
You become an automatic threat to them by being naturally prettier and having the all-powerful asset of youth.
Try Googling images of 50-year-olds and 70-year-olds and see how many more of these lines the latter group has.
They will never trust him if he’s 10-plus years your senior, no matter what he does to gain their approval along the way.
And they’re not going to bore you with the ‘up-the-bum’ conversation immediately after the first date.
That’s still a massively sacred thing for older guys.
I’m fairly sure that a lot of girls think sex with older men means wrinkly balls and wiry hair coming out of an array of orifices. ) I’ve come across have belonged to men in their late thirties/forties.
I’m talking strong arms and good dress sense, because they’re actually willing to spend cash on clothes, not just overpriced football tickets or playstation games.
By the time you settle down together, he’ll have amassed a bunch more life experiences than you (he’s had like 20 extra years).