Obviously when I confronted him, he denied everything saying he was only looking, he never touched anyone, etc. After telling him I had proof he showed me the email accounts and I found several emails to escort services requesting to set up dates.
Figgen bis die Schwänze in allen Teilen aus Niederösterreich viele Sexkontakte zu Frauen die anonym Sex suchen.
Sexkontakte Bern, Zürich oder einen Dildo in deinem Po stecken zu haben.
Bright, well traveled, adventurous, daring – I was taken in by stories of these grand adventures he’d had in the past, picturing a life w someone filled w energy and motivation.
The real man is a hairs breadth from freaking out about the smallest thing.
Dear Jo Ann, I would like to preface this by saying that I have yet to determine whether my husband is a sex addict with a compulsion to consume porn, surf escort sites, and sleep with prostitutes OR an entitled, narcissistic bastard who believes these behaviors are acceptable and deserved (by him) and is just apologizing and trying to make amends simply because he was caught. I have always felt a distance from my husband – a certain disconnection on his part that was exacerbated by his minimal ability to empathize w others and his obsession w himself.
For example, he is the kind of man who will steer the conversation to himself, will talk at length about himself (almost like a monologue w little room for others input or a give and take), but will rarely, if ever, ask any questions of anyone else in the room.
It goes without saying, he never mentioned her to me.
He made the argument that I was to blame – that we’d grown apart since having kids, that I wasn’t interested in sex despite the fact that over the years, I had started endless numbers of conversations w him asking why we weren’t being more intimate, how we could change things, etc.
I have come to think of him as a chronic malcontent.
This stands in stark contrast to the man he purported to be at the beginning of our relationship almost ten years ago.
The only time he seems to have a genuine emotion is when he is expressing feelings associated with HIS loss. I am terrified of raising my children alone, of starting over, of how a divorce could negatively affect my kids.